Newsletter #2

  • By Bear
  • 21 Dec, 2015

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!

It's the holiday season, which means many of us will be getting together with family and friends, celebrating together over a great meal and spectacular drinks. It's that exact same spirit we try to capture every Friday and Saturday night at Cow by Bear, but I'll admit there is something extra special about this time of year.

I'll be preparing a 75-day dry aged ribeye along with a smorgasbord of sides and Mama Bear's famous Hot Buttered r(h)um. Below I've provided a recipe for the ribeye, a side and the hot-buttered r(h)um - which also makes for a great housewarming gift if you're a guest this holiday season. I'd love to see your spin on these recipes, so please be sure to hashtag #cowbybear on social media if you're cooking up any of the below!
Grandma Bear’s, Hot Buttered R(h)um
This is a take on my grandmother’s recipe she's been making for as long as I can remember. I use Barbancourt rhum from Haiti, as that's the house booze at Cow by Bear and tastes perfect in this drink, but any spiced rum such as Sailor Jerry's or Captain Morgan's will work just fine.
  • 1.5 quarts vanilla ice cream
  • 2/3 lb. salted butter (melted)
  • 1 1/2 lb. brown sugar
  • 2 tsp. cinnamon
  • 1 tsp. cloves
  • 1/2 tsp. allspice
Batter:  In a large mixing bowl, beat together the brown sugar and butter until smooth. Slowly fold in ice cream, then stir in the spices. Batter is ready now if you just cant wait, but to preserve pour into plastic freezer containers and freeze. Batter can be stored in freezer for a year.
Hot buttered r(h)um:  For each mug, put in 2-3 Tbsp. frozen batter, 1 oz. jigger of r(h)um and fill with 3/4 cup hot water. Stir. Makes one hot buttered r(h)um.
We're known for our 45-50 day dry aged ribeye that we've served as the main course of every dinner we've ever put on. Our prime rib comes from one of the best ranches in the country and I personally age the beef. I'll be serving 75-day dry aged ribeye to my family on Christmas Eve this year. Obviously I'm a huge fan of dry-aged beef, so use it if you can. That said, unless it's aged at least 35 days you're better off saving money and going with a nice piece of prime ribeye that hasn't been aged. You just won't see a big difference in taste until it hits around 35 days. Due to differences in my kitchen setup at Cow by Bear and where I'll be cooking on Christmas Eve, this recipe isn't how we do things at the restaurant but it's exactly how I'll be preparing it the night St. Nick comes down the chimney.
  • 2 1/2 lb. bone-in ribeye steak (Serves 4-5. Use 35 day or more dry-aged if you can)
  • Kosher Salt
  • Fresh Ground Pepper
  • 4 Tbsp. unsalted butter
  • 4 garlic cloves
  • 1/2 onion, diced
  • Few sprigs rosemary
Take the steak out of the refrigerator at least an hour before cooking. About 30 minutes before cooking, salt the shit out of all sides of the steak. Then salt it a little more and pepper it. Heat the oven to 400 degrees. Heat a large cast iron skillet over high heat. When the pan is really hot, brown one side of the steak. Don't touch it at all after you put it down. It will be sizzling quite a bit, and you'll probably want to open some doors in addition to having your oven fan on high. After about two minutes, flip the steak. Sear the second side for about two minutes (again, don't touch). Stand the fat side of the steak (opposite the bone) and sear for about 45 seconds. Then flip the steak over back to the first side. Put the steak in the oven and let cook for about 9 minutes. Return the pan to the stove over low heat. Melt the butter, then add the garlic, diced onion and rosemary. With a large spoon, baste the steak with the steak juice, butter, garlic, onion, rosemary concoction gathered in the pan. Do this for about two and a half minutes. Put the steak on a cutting board with a foil tent over it and don't touch it for about 10 minutes. After ten minutes, cut the steak off the bone and slice against the grain. When it's time to eat, heat up the remaining juice in the pan and pour over the steak and everything else on your plate.
Bacon & Caramelized Onion Brussels Sprouts
I love Brussels sprouts. If there is one thing I purchase at every single Farmer's Market, regardless of the season, it is Brussels sprouts. I just can't get enough of them, and this is my favorite way to cook them. At Cow by Bear, we use beef cracklings instead of bacon, basically the excess fat of the ribeye we're serving that night. If you've been in for a dinner, you know what I'm talking about. I'm subbing in bacon for this recipe as it's obviously much easier to get your hands on, and still delicious.
  • 1 lb. fresh Brussels sprouts
  • 1/2 lb. of the best bacon you can get
  • 2 onions
  • 2 Tbsp. unsalted butter
  • Salt
  • Grapeseed or olive oil
To prep, wash the Brussels sprouts, trim off the knobby end and cut the sprouts in half lengthwise. Peel the onions and thinly slice them. Cut the bacon in half lengthwise and then cut into small square chunks.

In your largest oven-proof pan, heat the oil of your choice over medium-high heat for about a minute. Stack the sliced onions in the middle of the pan, on top of each other in a pyramid as much as possible. Don't touch for about 3 minutes. Salt the onions and toss to redistribute but try to keep them on top of each other. Let the onions cook like this for the next 15 minutes, turning them over themselves every 3 minutes or so. Reduce heat to medium-low and cook for another 30 minutes, turning them over every 10 minutes or so. Transfer the onions to a plate. Preheat the oven to 400. You will need to wipe some of the leftover juice out of the pan at this point, but I like to cook the bacon in that caramelized mess. Add the bacon and cook on medium heat until brown, redistributing frequently, about 5 minutes. Transfer the bacon to a plate, discard some of the leftover grease/juice again, and add the Brussels sprouts, flat/cut side down. Raise the heat to high until they start to sizzle, then put the pan in the oven. Cook for 8 minutes then shake the pan to redistribute the sprouts. Now cook for 10 more minutes. Taste one, they should be tender. If they're not quite there yet, cook for another two minutes. Return the pan to the stove over low heat. Add the butter, caramelized onions and bacon, and stir until mixed together evenly.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! We hope to see you at Cow by Bear in the new year. There's still time purchase a gift certificate for someone special. Just email us at!

Bear’s Necessities (Archive)

By Bear 09 Jun, 2017

The origins of Cow by Bear are rooted in Mexico City.

By Bear 12 May, 2017

I was a six year old bear when I had my first glass of wine. I remember like it was yesterday, stolen from a campsite by my older, bad bear cousin Rico   (RIP) . Red wine, I loved the stuff and spent the next year or so devouring campsites, flipping over airstreams and digging through Coleman coolers to find it. Years later when I arrived in France, my love for wine was renewed. French wine opened up my pallet in a way I couldn't have imagined when I was drinking the homemade stuff from Alaska in my youth. My travels have taken me all over the world and I've always made sure to pair the finest wine I can get my paws on with my meals. It's become an obsession that almost rivals food, which is why I created the   Wine by Bear program . Along with Sommelier Kaitlin Brooks, we're serving up 6 great wines every other Tuesday night. Our current lineup highlights the   6 Noble Grapes , and I asked Kaitlin to write a guest post about a couple of the varietals.

By Bear 27 Mar, 2017

Wednesday Dinners Available This Summer!

By Bear 13 Mar, 2017

It's time for the 2nd Annual Cow by Bear bracket challenge!

By Bear 24 Feb, 2017
Hello humans, Bear here. It's been quite the February with some of our most entertaining and raucous dinners to date. We'll be rolling out a Mardi Gras menu next week to close out the month and I'm really looking forward to serving up a NOLA-inspired menu.
By Bear 13 Jan, 2017

I hope you all enjoyed a great holiday season and your 2017 is starting off with a bang! When I reflect on 2016, I'm truly amazed by how far Cow by Bear has come. This time last year, we had just rolled out Friday dinners in addition to Saturday and had a staff of just three. We now host dinners Thursday, Friday and Saturday along with a Sunday brunch and have a staff of fifteen. I owe it all to you guys for being along for this ride and supporting Cow by Bear. Huge plans are in store for 2017 and I can't wait to share what's up my fur.
By Bear 10 Nov, 2016
I know many of you are probably looking to your favorite bear for insights on the Presidential election. From the beginning, Cow by Bear has always been about inclusion and bringing people together over food and drink to create new friendships. Whether your candidate won or lost, my door will always be open for you to come spend an evening with us. As my dear friend Barack Obama said, “We’re all on the same team.”
By Bear 04 Oct, 2016
Hi Humans,

Fall is finally here, and while the weather here in San Diego is late to the party, I’ve started to shift focus to my favorite autumn dishes. Fall is my favorite season and produces some of the tastiest produce of the year. I’ll not only be incorporating them into our traditional Cow by Bear   brunch   and dinners, but also the special 7-course, 50-person dinner/costume contest on Saturday, October 29 to celebrate Halloween.   There are still a handful of tickets available here.
I had such a blast two weeks ago at our anniversary dinner at the Broadway Pier. It was the largest dinner Cow by Bear has put on (100 people) and we learned a ton about how to make these special events true one-of-a-kind experiences. I can’t wait to share some of the upcoming ideas!   You can check out pictures from the Broadway Pier event here .
Now onto a few recipes. We partnered up with   Barcón Cocktail Co.   for the anniversary dinner and they provided two awesome custom cocktails for the event. I wanted one to have our house spirit, of course, Rhum Barbancourt from Haiti - so they incorporated that with the Imperial Buck.
By Bear 16 Sep, 2016

Hey Friends,

We're one day away from our big Anniversary dinner and I couldn’t be more excited. This whole ride has been really amazing, and I feel like we’re just scratching the surface of how great and special it can be. I want to thank you all for following along and being part of this experience. Putting on these dinners and special events (and soon Brunch !) has been so rewarding for me, and it’s because I’ve had the chance to meet and spend an evening with so many of you wonderful humans. So, this is a giant Bear hug from me to you. Thank you!

While the staff and I are hard at work getting all the details just right for our dinners this weekend, I also wanted to take the opportunity to announce our next big event! On Saturday, October 29, we’ll be hosting a special Halloween dinner! This is sure to be as delicious as it is spooky, featuring 7 deadly courses paired with 7 deadly wines. We’ll be having a costume contest, with the winners taking away some great prizes…but you’re going to have to beat me out and I have some pretty epic ideas circulating my big bear brain, if I may say so myself.

We have the perfect location lined up, but I can’t guarantee that it’s not haunted. You may experience some experiences, but that’s all part of the experience. Dinner is $200 per person and reserved to 50 guests. As a member of our newsletter, you’re getting priority access to this announcement - but we’ll be making a larger announcement on Monday so if you’re interested in coming make sure to get your tickets now before they’re gone.

Tickets are on sale now and available here.

Feel free to reach out to me directly at if you have any questions at all.

Thanks and we hope to spend a spooky evening with you!


By Bear 02 Aug, 2016

Hey Y’all! How’s everyone’s summer going? Hopefully you’re making some time to do what you love – traveling, spending time with family, getting outdoors…whatever it is that makes you happy. That’s really been the thrill for me of running Cow by Bear, getting to do what I love – cooking and bringing people together.


I’ve had the opportunity to host some amazing folks already this summer and appreciate everyone that has come in for a dinner. I’m always looking for ways to keep our experience fresh and unique and opportunities to bring more people together. It’s in this spirit that I’m happy to announce we are starting a Sunday brunch experience - Brunch by Bear - beginning Sunday, October 2. As a subscriber to our newsletter you have priority access for tickets, which are available now at .


Tickets are $100 per person and the experience will be unlike any brunch you’ve ever been a part of. The brunch will include 5 courses and feature signature drinks. You’ll leave fat and happy. Brunch starts at 10:30am and, like our dinners, reserved to just 10 seats.



A huge THANK YOU to all of you that purchased tickets for our Anniversary dinner in September. It sold out even quicker than I anticipated, and I can’t wait to spend an amazing evening together. We’re planning an even bigger New Years Eve celebration, which I’ll be announcing here on this newsletter in the coming weeks!




Now is also the time to book your company’s holiday event with Cow by Bear. In addition to our regularly scheduled Thurday-Saturday dinners, we’ll be available to put on dinners for parties between 10-14 on every other day in the month of December. Email me at to inquire about availability!




Now that that’s all out of the way, on to a couple recipes!

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